Posted on August 24, 2023 in Family Law

When divorcing parents in Illinois cannot agree on child custody terms, mediation is often legally required before the case can proceed to court. Proper preparation is key to making custody mediation more effective and productive.

Understand the Mediation Process

It is important to understand how child custody mediation operates in Illinois. Mediation involves parents meeting with a neutral, accredited mediator to attempt to negotiate custody and parenting time agreements. The mediator facilitates discussion but does not impose any binding decisions. Conversations during mediation are considered strictly confidential under Illinois law.

Gather and Organize Documentation

Bring any relevant court orders, child custody evaluations, school records, medical records, police reports, and other important documentation that supports your position on custody arrangements to the mediation session. Having evidence available helps mediators fully understand the circumstances when reviewing proposals. Keep copies organized in a binder for easy reference.

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 Posted on August 18, 2023 in Family Law

Fathers have important legal rights when navigating family court in Illinois during divorce and child custody cases. However, many dads are unaware of their rights or how to assert them effectively. It is beneficial to know about a father’s rights during a child custody case.

Presumption of Equal Parenting Time

Recent changes to Illinois law have established a presumption that both parents are fit and that equal parenting time is in the children’s best interests. This means courts will generally seek to order a timeshare as close as possible to 50/50 custody or at least “reasonable parenting time" for each parent.

Fathers should not hesitate to request equal parenting time and present arguments about why spending half of the time with dad is best for the kids. Unless evidence shows otherwise, judges will aim for a schedule maximizing the involvement of both parents.

Right to Seek Joint Custody

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 Posted on August 09, 2023 in Divorce

Many parents begin to settle into a pattern after their divorce has finalized and they have a final decree dictating who spends time with the child and when. Conflict may begin to become less heated and less frequent when the divorce has been finalized. However, it is important for parents who are getting divorced to continuously co-parent beginning the day they tell their child about their imminent separation. When divorcing parents work together for the benefit of the child from day one, children may experience an easier transition from living in a two-parent household to seeing each parent separately. Unless there are certain circumstances suggesting that one parent should be excluded from the child’s life, such as cases where one parent has abused the child, your child could likely benefit from you and your soon-to-be ex-spouse planning for successful co-parenting until your divorce has finalized.

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 Posted on July 28, 2023 in Family Law

Guardian ad litems (GALs) play a crucial role in the legal system, representing the best interests of vulnerable individuals, such as children whose parents are getting divorced. However, misconceptions surrounding their work persist. Today, we will be debunking common misunderstandings associated with GALs and shed light on their critical role in safeguarding those who cannot advocate for themselves. If you believe guardian ad litem would be beneficial to your legal situation, discuss this with your divorce attorney to try and come up with a plan to get guardian ad litem involved in your case.

Misconception #1 – GALs are Advocates for One Party Only

One common misconception is that GALs solely advocate for one side in a legal dispute. However, the primary responsibility of a GAL is to represent and protect the best interests of the individual they are appointed to represent. They objectively assess what is in the person's well-being, considering multiple factors like their physical and emotional needs, safety, and future prospects. GALs work independently and serve as a neutral voice in court proceedings, guiding the court toward a decision that ensures the individual's welfare.

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 Posted on July 20, 2023 in Divorce

It is no secret that some people are better with money than others. It can create significant strain in a marital relationship if one spouse prioritizes saving and financial responsibility, while the other is more interested in spending large amounts of money for their own personal enjoyment. When spouses who do not see eye to eye on financial management get divorced, it may become a major issue during asset division if one of them has spent wastefully without the cooperation of the other spouse. When an Illinois court finds that one spouse has dissipated (wasted) marital assets, that spouse can be ordered to compensate the other for any misused marital funds. This is very common in cases where one spouse has a drug or gambling addition, or has spent a significant amount of money on an adultery partner. If you believe that your spouse has dissipated marital assets, it is important to involve an attorney. You will likely need to provide evidence showing your spouse’s misappropriation of marital funds, which an attorney may be able to help you gather.

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 Posted on July 13, 2023 in Divorce

If you are considering getting divorced from your spouse, you are far from alone. Some individuals fear that their reason for wanting a divorce is strange, or silly. Knowing some of the most common reasons people get divorced may help to validate your feelings. Deciding whether to divorce is a highly personal choice. You should know that you will not likely need to explain your reasons for wanting a divorce to the judge. The only ground for divorce is having “irreconcilable differences.” The judge is not there to judge whether you have a good enough reason for getting divorced. Simply asserting that you and your spouse have irreconcilable differences is generally enough to have your divorce granted. However, if your case goes to litigation, you may be asked some questions of a personal nature. It is best to be represented by an attorney throughout the process.

Top Reasons for Getting a Divorce

Some of the most common reasons spouses divorce include:

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 Posted on June 28, 2023 in Family Law

When the Illinois economy slows down, the pace of layoffs accelerates throughout the state. It can become very difficult to keep up with your child support obligations when you do not have your full income. However, child support is ordered by a court, and unless the court changes your child support obligations, you would still need to pay as obligated.

The Court May Modify Your Child Support

The court may order a reduction in the child support that you pay if you can prove that you have suffered a significant cut in your income. If you are out of work for any extended period of time, you should file a motion to reduce child support with the court. The judge may order lowered child support.

Courts often take a different view if the paying parent is fired from their job with cause. Then, judges often deny a request to modify child support.

Once you find a job again, the other parent may file a motion to modify to raise child support to reflect your new income. However, that modification would not be retroactive to cover the reduced payments.

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 Posted on June 22, 2023 in Divorce

Many Illinois divorces are triggered, at least indirectly, by adultery. The betrayed party, understandably hurt and angry, may wish to seek legal revenge against the person who interfered in their marriage. While revenge may seem tempting, it is not feasible to take legal action against someone for breaking up your marriage. However, it is important to understand how adultery may affect the divorce proceedings.

How Does Illinois Law View Adultery in Divorce Cases?

In Illinois, all divorces are based on “irreconcilable differences,” as it is a no-fault divorce state. Although adultery is no longer a legally recognized ground for divorce, it may still be taken into account during divorce proceedings. If a spouse’s infidelity is causing problems in the family, divorce might be a solution to consider. Adultery could affect how marital property is divided and spousal support payments. According to Illinois law, judges must decide about alimony without considering marital misconduct. Although marital misconduct may not directly impact divorce proceedings, it can still affect other aspects, such as property division.

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 Posted on June 09, 2023 in Divorce

Finances play a crucial role in a divorce case. When there are complicated financial circumstances in a divorce, a forensic accountant may provide expert analysis and testimony. The primary objective of a forensic accountant is to assist in painting an accurate financial picture of the marital estate so that asset division, child custody, and other divorce issues can be determined. Forensic accountants are often used in divorce cases in which a spouse is misrepresenting his or her financial situation. A divorcing spouse may hide assets, undervalue assets, or lie about his or her income. A forensic accountant’s job is to uncover the truth and assist the divorce lawyer during the case.

Tracing and Identifying Assets

In many contested divorce cases, questions are raised about a spouse’s marital and non-marital assets. A forensic accountant traces and identifies marital assets, including assets that have been hidden. A spouse may try to hide assets by transferring assets to a third party, failing to disclose offshore accounts or other difficult-to-find property, or lying about the value of assets.

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 Posted on May 26, 2023 in Divorce

Property division is an essential aspect of the Illinois divorce process. For many divorcing couples, their home is the most valuable asset they own. Unfortunately, in these difficult times, many people owe more on their mortgage than their house is worth.

If you find yourself in this predicament, you may have questions about what happens to the home and the mortgage during your divorce. The answer to this question depends on many factors. Read on to learn more.

How is an Upside Down Mortgage Handled During Divorce?

Typically, there are two main ways that divorcing spouses address the equity in their home. In some cases, the couple sells the house and divides the proceeds between them. In other cases, one spouse buys out the other spouse by retaining ownership of the home and compensating the other spouse with other marital assets, such as bank account balances, retirement assets, or vehicles.

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